Tuesday, October 24, 2023

How Do I Fix THAT?

Everyone selected for MVB has the requisite athleticism and skill to succeed. Everyone. Some have more than others, yet players without elite athleticism have achieved great success.

Often it's not a lack of quickness or hand-eye coordination that holds players back. It's their ability to focus, to block out distractions, and make the simple play that allows skill execution.

Some players are said to not be great in practice but achieve in games, for example Jimmy Garoppolo. Others excel in practice and struggle in games.

I've written about "managing pressure" but it's managing yourself. I believe in Jason Selk's "Ten-Minute Toughness" approach.

1. Start with breathing. The simplest breathing is 'square' pattern, 3 seconds in, 3 second hold, 3 seconds out, 3 second hold. Some recommend 4 seconds; I think that's too long.

2. Identity statement. "This is who I am." Tell yourself unique to you, "I am a tall, athletic, prepared volleyball player who cares about the success of our team."

3. Mental highlight reel. Pick out five or six highlights from your career and build your 'personal achievement reel'. They might be offense, defense, serving or whatever else you've done. They can arise from practice, offseason play, or this season.

4. Performance statement. "This is how I play." Maybe it's, "I attack the ball but have the discipline to pull back my attack when the situation dictates." Or "I make the right decision and execute to help our team." It's your mantra.

5. Finish with breathing, similar to Step 1. Learning to breathe more effectively can help you.

Lagniappe. Receiving the big serve. 

  • Stop the ace. 
  • Stop overpasses. 
  • Focus on a good pass, not a great pass. 

Ask Yourself Three Questions

The challenge resonates regardless of the season, sport, or age of the players. In today's Boston Globe, Adam Himmelsbach interviewed Celtics skipper Joe Mazzulla about young players' development. 

“I think the biggest thing is, can you handle being in and out of a lineup and knowing that when your name is called it’s because we need you to execute a role and really need you to help us win?” Mazzulla said. “And, at the same time know that our development team has really put in a long-term development plan to say, ‘We want you to be here by the end of the season, All-Star break, postseason.’

“And it’s tough. I’ve coached guys like that. Can you feel appreciated and valued every day? Can you answer the bell when your name is called? And can you get better every single day?"

The three seniors have to lead by example every day. The best player on every team has to be the hardest worker. And every team member needs that urgency to improve and perform daily. 

Monday, October 23, 2023

Being Part of Something Special

 Few people get a chance to be part of something special. Make a daily difference through your effort and sacrifice. 

Learning Across Domains: The Red Team

Be a lifelong learner across domains. This post from my basketball blog illustrates lessons from strategic military leaders.

Love our losses and learn from them. 

Think out of the box to consider unconventional strategies. 

Melrose-Wilmington stats.


Sadie Jaggers with double digit kills, ably assisted by Sabine Wenzel and Sofia Papatsoris with seven apiece. 


Low serve receive numbers as Wilmington didn't serve a lot. 

Leah Fowke had 18 assists. 

Melrose had 85 percent serving percentage. 

Lagniappe. Melrose competitors for MIAA ranking Oliver Ames and Duxbury both won 3-0. 

Just my opinion, but serve receive proficiency is going to be a big determinant of postseason success. 


Melrose - Wilmington a Few Third Set Highlights

I'm grateful for the Wildcat stream and will describe as best as I can. Not the same as actually being on site.   


Maggie Turner serves to start the set and Sadie Jaggers wipes the block on the first point. On the next, Grace Gentile makes a sprawling dig and Leah Fowke times the block to score. 


Leah goes on a lengthy service run, using "the whole field" with a tape-assisted ace. Then, Sofia Papatsoris shows she hasn't forgotten how to play as she fires home a kill. 


Leading 23-20, Sadie 'tools' the block and at match point, Sofia gets a tip attack winner. 


Game 18: Melrose 3 Wilmington 0

"It's not whom you play, it's how you play." - Don Meyer

Melrose traveled to Wilmington and defeated the Wildcats (3-16) 25-15, 25-16, 25-20. The win raises Melrose's record to 16-2 (14-1 in ML12). 

Coaches analyze matches according to how teams play. Melrose did some good things, interspersed with some lapses. 

Coaches want relentlessness, illustrated by Michael Biehn's description: 


With a substantial talent differential, coaches might expect steely-eyed efficiency. 



Clips to follow... 
 


 

Sunday, October 22, 2023

At Wilmington Monday

Melrose goes on the road for its final three games, starting tonight in Wilmington (3-15, 3-11 ML12). 

Wilmington has beaten Stoneham twice and Watertown and won a set against both Melrose and Wakefield. They also got 21 points in a set against Winchester, and 19 points in two sets versus Woburn 

Their goal will be acting as a "spoiler." Melrose seeks to get back on track after Friday's loss at Westborough. 

Melrose seeks to build momentum headed into the postseason and to stay as high as possible in the power rankings. 


Best case scenario? Three sweeps with a final AVG MARGIN of 1.90 and OPP RATING of 2.065 (total 3.965). Realistically, sweeping Newton North is highly unlikely. 

More likely a final ranking around 3.7 to 3.8 is possible . That won't get a top four ranking. That could be a 5-6-7 area seeding. 

For example, Duxbury faces (with OPRAT):

  • Nantucket  (W 3 - 1) 1.48
  • Quincy  - 1.06 
  • Dartmouth - 3.32
  • Bourne - 2.40
  • Pembroke - 0.68
I'll presume they win all 3-0 for calculation purposes. That raises their AVG Margin to 2.45. That raises their OPRAT to 1.60 so their total goes to 4.05. Of course, they may not go 12-0 in their final sets and their opponents ratings can also change. 

My guess is that Duxbury will get to #5.

Oliver Ames plays powerhouse Bishop Feehan which recently beat Barnstable and lower-rated opponents in Sharon and Foxborough (they swept both earlier in the season). Their schedule combination is similar to Melrose's so I wouldn't expect big movement for them. 

Not sure that teams can "game the system" so the logical approach is play well and be healthy going into the postseason. 


 

How Coaches Lose Our Minds and Bonus Recipe


(BOSTON) The long-time basketball coach was found incoherent and howling at the moon. Police arrived and took him to the local hospital where he kept mumbling, "It's okay. I know, I know." The responding officer, also a nurse who had played for the coach said, "he just broke after seeing and hearing so much baloney for decades." 

What drives coaches mad? 

"It's okay." A player travels or throws the ball away. Her teammates soothe her saying, "It's okay. Don't worry about it." Strong teams don't give away games. Turnovers kill dreams. "The ball is gold." It's NOT okay. Leaders refocus teammates. "Let's go." 

"I know, I know." A player throws the ball to the other team and then looks over to the coach. "I know, I know." If you know, then stop doing it. Just stop. Coach Wooden said, "Don't whine, don't complain, don't make excuses." And don't tell the coach, "I know." 

Poor transition defense. Bad defense is a recipe for defeat via allowing easy points. Effort doesn't require supreme skill or apocalyptic athleticism. It demands concentration, anticipation, reaction, and execution - C.A.R.E. 

Silence. Silence is the anathema of success. Talk energizes. Talk heightens awareness. Talk intimidates. ELO. Early. Loud. Often. 

Lackadaisical cutting. "Basketball is a game of separation." Separation mandates urgent cutting. Urgency is a catalyst for positive action. 

The deadly S's. Softness. Selfishness. Sloth (laziness). "The game honors toughness." Being called soft indicts a player in the worst way. Tough players get on the floor, set solid screens, set up cuts, and 'play so hard your coach has to take you out' as Jay Bilas wrote in Toughness. 

Casual approach. Focus. "Turn ordinary moments into extraordinary results." - Shane Parrish  If it's not important to you, you can't produce a great result. Sara Blakely says, "Obsess the product."

Lack of attention to detail. The book title says, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff. The author clearly wasn't a coach. Sweat the small stuff. No detail is unimportant. 

Lack of punctuality. Being late disrespects your teammates, your coaches, your program. Exceptional circumstances arise but every day cannot be an exceptional excuse. Take pride in doing everything right. Use "Dean Smith Time" and be ten minutes early. 

Not doing your best. "Always do your best," is the final agreement in The Four Agreements. Your best means commitment to a lifestyle consistent with doing your best. Our best includes good nutrition, rest, exercise, preparation, effort. 

Summary (How to Drive a Coach Insane):
  • "It's okay."
  • "I know, I know." 
  • Poor transition defense (coverage)
  • Lackadaisical play.
  • Silence. 
  • Poor attention to detail.
  • The Deadly S's - softness, selfishness, sloth. 
  • Indifference.
  • Lateness.
  • Not doing your best.

Presidential advisor David Axelrod said, "All we can do is everything we can do."

Lagniappe. "Man does not eat by bread alone." 

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A "Rocky" Season


Whether boxing or volleyball, you need to give and to take a punch. 

Sylvester Stallone was inspired by viewing a heavyweight fight and wrote the script for Rocky. He turned down $125,000 and $250,000 (five decades ago) insisting he star in the film. Studios said, "you talk funny and you look funny." Finally, he settled on $35,000 and the role. Rocky won the 1977 Academy Award for best picture. A star was born. 

Toughness is a skill. It demands doing what you don't want to do when you don't want to do it, so that you get to do what you want when you can. 

Former Celtics' coach Brad Stevens said that he never met a great defensive player who wasn't an excellent student. 

Many of you have read Jay Bilas's book, "Toughness." Bilas shares that his father asked him to change the contact paper in his sister's bathroom vanity. He did so, but with shoddy work. His father came home late from work and redid the job over a couple of hours, saying nothing. Bilas felt shame at having done poor quality work, unacceptable to his father. 

You owe yourself and your teammates the pride and professionalism of bringing your best self to the court every day. That's toughness. 

Lagniappe. Former Melrose AD told us over fifty years ago, "I'm pleased but I'm not satisfied." 


Be pleased at earning another title. Don't be satisfied. 





 

The Complexity of Leadership


Leadership simplifies complexity. How so? 

"The strength of the wolf is the pack." 

"You can go faster alone; we can go farther together." - African Proverb

"Ubuntu - I am because we are." - Swahili word

Use the power of analogy. Tempering makes metals tougher, more useful. Tempering exposes metal alloys to heat, similar to playing tough teams on the schedule.  

Years ago we lost a middle school basketball game. One player tried to absorb responsibility for the loss. "It's my fault. I was terrible." Remember, these are thirteen year-old children. A teammate gave her a hug, saying "We win together and we lose together." That was the strongest group we coached, winning a high school summer league as rising frosh. It included future MVBers Victoria Crovo, Kaitlyn MacInnes, and Kat Torpey. 

The ability to recover from disappointments in volleyball and life means so much. Define your destiny together. 

Lagniappe. Platform skills often forecast success. 

Saturday, October 21, 2023

Resilience Stories

"That which we are, we are, and if we are to be any better, now is the time to begin." - Alfred Lord Tennyson

The biggest problem with being smart is claiming ignorance. The same goes for resilience. MVB has reams of resilience narratives. 

Exhibit 1. Melrose at Billerica, Sectional Championship 2021 


Exhibit 2. Melrose at Duxbury, Sectional Championship 2022  Melrose slays the undefeated Dragons on the road. 

Exhibit 3. Melrose defeats defending State Champion Frontier. You achieved a statement win in five sets. 

Exhibit 4. Tied at 13 in set five at Winchester, Melrose gets consecutive winners to seal the win against a quality opponent. Winchester has played well recently to move up to #19 in the D1 rankings. 

Exhibit 5. Down two sets at Wakefield and 6-10 in set five, Melrose goes 9-3 down the stretch to stay unbeaten in the Freedom Division. 

"Confidence comes from proven success" says former NFL coach Bill Parcells. 

When fully engaged, you have the ability to win against solid teams at home or on the road. Few teams are good enough to beat good teams, especially on the road, unless fully committed, enthusiastic, focused. 

Build momentum during the final week of the season, headed into the playoffs. 

Lagniappe. Building confidence.
  • Music
  • Motivational videos
  • Get warm early.
  • Control what's in your control. "That's Outside My Boat"
  • Create an epic thought list. Think 10 Minute Toughness and your highlight reel. 
  • Focus energy on the success of others. "Make others better."
  • Experience gratitude. 

Adversity Is a Test

Over fifty years ago, we lost by two to the defending state basketball champion. Coach Sonny Lane locked us in the team room and gave us a tongue lashing for 45 minutes. "You lost because it said Lexington on their jersey, not because they were better. We won't lose to them again." 

We beat them by 18 on the road in the rematch and in Boston Garden by one in overtime in the D1 Sectional Championship game. 

Adversity is a test. 

Belief and Attitude




Things go wrong...a bad serve, missed attack, misplayed ball. Sometimes a whole game. 

The season didn't end last night. Four years ago, Sadie was the last Melrose volleyballer to play basketball for me. We lost by four to Andover, a far superior team, with players that won the State Championship last winter. We were within two points in the final minute. 

After the game, the girls told me the Andover parents said "you competed hardest of any team they played that season."

Earlier in the season we lost by a point to a mediocre but aggressive, scrappy team. Afterwards, I told them that the level of response was unacceptable. That wouldn't happen again. In the rematch, we led 20-2 at halftime with aggressiveness at both ends, ball movement, and unselfishness. The opposing parents, according to my wife, groused that we had gotten 'new players'. 

New players aren't coming to practice tomorrow. The question is which team shows up. Attitude is everything. 






 


Friday, October 20, 2023

Statistics: Melrose Versus Westborough

Volleyball is a hard game to execute at a high level. Statistics may or may not reflect how a game went. They reflected how the match unfolded. I'll review them briefly.

Serving: Melrose had only five service points for the match and served at 80.6 percent. Westborough had 36 points off service. 

Assists: Leah Fowke had nine. Melrose was constantly on the defensive, living in 'free ball city'. Westborough had 36 assists. 

Kills: Sadie Jaggers and Sabine Wenzel each had five among the team total of twelve. Westborough had 37 kills. 

If we examined the serve receive efficiency, e.g. (passes - errors)/total, the percentage would not be up to par.

Westborough is an outstanding team and terrific teams can make another team look mediocre or worse. Melrose had two big wins earlier in the week and perhaps those took the 'urgency' out of the moment. 

A hard loss can refocus a team. 

The Morning After


"Don't whine, don't complain, don't make excuses." - John Wooden 

Exceptional coaching requires self-regulation and course correction. Coach Scott Celli understands this. Learn from experience, good and bad. Get back on the horse and get after it. 

Young players got an opportunity for action, although experiencing some of the bitter aftertaste of a tough loss. 

As written in the classic, Man's Search for Meaning, life revolves around relationships, 'work', and suffering. Coping with disappointment is important for all of us. 

Being a worthy competitor is a choice. 

Lagniappe. Coach Greg Berge shares some of what Coach Celli knows. 

Game 17: Westborough 3 Melrose 0

Melrose traveled to face top-ranked Westborough and left disappointed with a 25-12, 25-10, 25-9 defeat. Player of the Year Quinn Anderson dominated and racked up her 1,000th career kill.

The Rangers led 'box to wire' with superior play. Melrose was unable to mount much resistance.

Big wins over Wakefield and Burlington earlier this week couldn't translate into sustained momentum.

Melrose gets back into action Monday at Wilmington in a week with Monday-Wednesday-Friday games, culminating with another tough matchup against Division 1 leader Newton North. 

Melrose notes:


Melrose's average margin drops to 1.705 and its OPRAT rises to 2.171 which recalculates to 3.876 likely to keep them in similar ranking. 

Next week's first two opponents (Wilmington and Stoneham) both have negative OPRAT which will definitely drop Melrose, probably to either position six or seven. 

It is a virtual certainty that Melrose can at best hope for a pair of home playoff matches in their search for a three-peat Sectional Championship. 

Wellness Check

Who's your favorite player?

When you support a team, you want every player to do their best for the benefit of the team. "Results will vary."

Yes, parents and immediate family members are bigger stakeholders than writers and back seat drivers.

Years ago, Coach Scott Celli moved Alyssa DiRaffaele from attack to back row. Alyssa had a dynamic serve and major back row skills. Her play helped carry a team to a state final.

The coach's job is putting the team in the best position to succeed. That depends on the ability of the player and the needs of the team. For example, Manon Marchais has played her best volleyball in the middle, showing craft unexpected for a relative novice at the position. As a student of the game, she knows expectations at multiple positions. 

What happens when injured players like Sofia Papatsoris and Carolyn Higonenq return to the lineup? In coaching terms, that's known as "a good problem." It raises the internal competition that lifts the overall team performance. 

Reserve players should want to play more. Always ask the coach what skills need work and for suggestions on how to do that. It's tempting to listen to parents, family, and friends. There is one voice that matters - Coach Celli's. 

And when your opportunity arrives, "always do your best." Your best effort leaves no regret. 






















 

Over the Net: A Rules Video



 

Globe PoW - Sadie Jaggers

PoW  another Melrose player recognized, Sadie Jaggers 

The Formula

Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
Because their words had forked no lightning they
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight
Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,   
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And you, my father, there on the sad height,
Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

There's no secret formula. Play present, one play at a time.

"Put the ball down."  


Melrose leads 16-13 coming out of a timeout. Sabine makes a play.

"Get to the block." Make the other team score positive points.
 

Sabine with a block. 

"Keep the ball up." 


Grace with a great dig, Leah perfect set, Sadie finishes. 

"Never quit on a play." 


Accidental offense wasn't enough as Maggie stayed alert and made a play. 

"Great defense is multiple efforts." 


Grace is feeling it here with three great digs to keep plays alive. Meanwhile, the bench is losing their minds... 

Volleyball is poetry. "Do not go gentle into that good night."